Friday, December 21, 2012

Christmas SMS | Wishing Quotes




Chritmas ka yeh pyara tyohaar
Jeevan mein laye khushiyan apaar,
Santa clause aaye aapke dwar,
Subhkamna hamari kare sweekar.
Merry Christmas.

Baccho ka din, tohfon ka din
Santa aayega kuch tumhe deke jayega
Bhul na jana use shukriya kehna..
Yahi saadki ishu saa sikhayega!
Christmas Day ki shubhkamnaye…


Rab Aisi Christmas Har Roj Laye,
Party Main Char Chand Lagaye,
Santa Clause Se Roj Milaye,
Aur Hume Nae Nae Gift Dilwaye.

Aaj se theek 5 din baad Christmas Day..
Aaj se theek 11 din baad New Year..
Bolo tumhe kya wish karun? Chalo DONO aik saath kar deta hoon.
But! I think I must be first one who wished you like this.
Happy Christmas Day....
Happy New Year

May the Christmas morning make us happy to be thy 
children and Christmas evening bring us to our beds
with grateful thoughts forgiving and forgiven. 
Happy Christmas

My three wishes for the world are that there will be no drugs
that little kids will get along better and 
that you will all have a Merry Christmas.

Na Card Bhej raha Hun
Na Koi Phool Bhej raha Hun
Sirf Sache Dil Se
Mein Kehta Hun Apko
Merry Christmas

Lo agaya Jis ka tha intezaar…
Sab Mil K Bolo Mere Yaar…
Decebmber main Laya Christmas Bahar
Mubarak Ho tumko christmas Mere Yaar…

Har dam khushiya ho sath
Kabhi daman na ho Khali
Hum sab Ke taraf se,
Wish you Happy Christmas…

Tuesday, December 18, 2012

Romantic SMS | Quotes


  1. Lives are for living I live for you, Dreams are for dreaming I dream for you, Hearts are for beating mine beats for you Angels are for keeping. Can I keep you?
  2. You are like the sunshine so warm, you are like sugar, so sweet... you are like you... and that's the reason why I love you!
  3. You must be a good runner because you are always running in my mind, you must be a good thief because you have stolen my heart, and i am always a bad shooter because I Miss You Always...
  4. If I had a penny for everytime I thought of you, I'd still miss you, but at least I would be rich enough to come and see you..!!
  5. If I die and go to heaven, I'll put your name on a golden star. So that all the angels can see, how much you mean to me.
  6. I miss you so, here around me, so many people, but yet so alone. I miss your lips, your lovely smile, I miss you each day more and more!
  7. Love is hard and will always be, but remember somebody loves you and that one is ME !
  8. I wanted to send you all my love but the postman said it was too big !
  9. If you live to be a hundred , I want to be a hundred minus one day , so I don't have to live a day without you.
  10. There are a lot of birds wispering only about you, you should once listen to them, then you would know how much I love you.
  11. When the night comes, look at the sky. If you see a falling star, don't wonder why, just make a wish. Trust me, it will come true, 'cause I did it and I found you!
  12. I hope that you finally understand, that I will love you untill the end, because your not just my girl, you are also my best friend!
  13. Kiss me and you will see stars ....Love me and I will give them to you.
  14. My love, words however special ... could never even start, to tell you all the love I have for you within my heart!
  15. The day that I'll die, when death replaces birth, I'll recognize angels' faces, 'cus I live with one on earth.
  16. Loving you could take my life, but when I look into your eyes, I know you're worth that sacrafice!
  17. If you were a tear I would never dare to cry. I might lose you!
  18. If your heart was a prison, I would like to be sentenced for life.
  19. If a big fat man creeps into your bedroom one night and stuffs you into a bag, Then do not worry 'cause I told Santa I wanted you for christmas!
  20. If you are mad at me, you might just as well give me all my kisses back!
  21. One day you will ask me: What is more important to you, me or your life? I will say: my life… You will walk away from me without knowing that YOU ARE MY LIFE!
  22. I have seen angels in the sky, I have seen snowfall in july, I have seen things u only imAgine to see, But I haven’t seen anything sweeter than you.
  23. True love is hard to find. Special 1-1 of a kind. But the love inside of me is true. It appeared the day I met you!
  24. I believe that God above created you for me to love. He picked you out from all the rest cause He knew i'd love you the best!
  25. If I died or went somewhere far, I'd write your name on every star so everyone could look up and see you mean the world to me.
  26. I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.
  27. Who cares whether this is a poem or rhyme, I will love you until the end of time.
  28. Last night I looked up at the stars and matched each one with a reason why I love you I was doing great, but then I ran out of stars.
  29. If you live for 100 more days, then I want to live for 100 more days minus one so that I'd never have to live without you.
  30. They say you only fall in love once, it can't be true. Everytime I look at you, I fall in love all over again.
  31. I get the best feeling in the world when you say hi or even smile at me because I know, even if its just for a second, that I've crossed your mind.
  32. Loved you yesterday, love you still, always have, always will.
  33. If there ever comes a day when we can't be together, just know that you are in my heart. You'll be in there forever!
  34. Do you believe in love at first sight? Or should I walk by again?
  35. You can fall from the sky, you can fall from a tree, but the best way to fall is in love with me.
  36. If I had a rose for everytime I thought about you Id be walking in a garden forever.
  37. I wrote your name in the sand but the waves washed it away. I wrote your name on my hand but I washed it the next day. I wrote your name on a paper but I accidentally threw it away. I wrote your name in my heart and forever it will stay.
  38. If I can only be with you in my dreams then I'll sleep for ever.
  39. Sometimes the best things in life are worth waiting for. So wait for me, I'll be right back.
  40. Why is it that I have to climb 1000 mountains to get to you and all you have to do is smile to get to me?
  41. If I got a penny every time I thought of you I'd be a millionaire by tomorrow.
  42. If you stood in front of a mirror and held up a dozen roses you would see the 13 most beautiful things in the world.
  43. A day without you is like a day without light because you light up my life.
  44. Is it true? Can it be? Are you the only one for me?
  45. Tonight I ask the stars above. How I'll ever win your love. What do I do.What do I say. To turn your angel eyes my way?
  46. The shortest word for me is "I", The sweetest word for me is "love", The only word for me is "you!"
  47. The way you look into my eyes, It scares me, The way you say "I love you", It scares me, The way you know just what to say, It scares me The ways you scare me, I love it
  48. Good days come often, Bad days do too, But the best days only come when I'm with you.
  49. You tripped me, so I fell for you. I will love you until my heart stops beating.If nothing lasts forever, will you be my nothing?
  50. I wish I was your blanket, I wish I was your bed, I wish I was your pillow underneath your head, I want to be around you, I want to hold you tight, and be the lucky person who kisses you goodnight.
  51. Each time I miss you a star falls from the sky, So if you look up at the night sky and find it dark with no stars, its all your fault, you made me miss you too much.
  52. Words alone will never be able to express the depth of my love for you.
  53. In case you didn't know, I'll be loving you always and forever!
  54. Let these words not only touch your eyes, let them travel through your soul, and let them rest in your heart as you rest in mine…I love you.
  55. Falling in love with you was the easiest thing I've done in my life.
  56. Hand in hand and heart to heart my love for you shall never part.
  57. Loving you makes my heart explode with happiness.
  58. Rains fall, winds blow, the sun shines... it all comes naturally, just like loving you.
  59. Bfseing with you is like having every single one of my wishes come true.
  60. Loving you has been the best thing to ever happen to me!
  61. Just had to let you know... you're the best! I love you!
  62. You are the sun in my day, the wind in my sky, the waves in my ocean, and the beat in my heart.
  63. I wish I was there to hold you tight instead of just send this loving, "Good Night."
  64. Thank you for being the one who calms all my inner fears.
  65. Just when I thought it couldn't get better, you prove me wrong! I love you!
  66. I LOVE YOU 2-DAY, I LOVE YOU 2-MORROW, PUT IT TOGETHER, I LOVE YOU 4-EVER
  67. How lucky I am to have known someone who was so hard to say goodbye to.Love you dear.
  68. I'm not the same since i met u, the days turned longer the nights turned colder and u will always have a special place in my heart just for you. I LOVE YOU
  69. Without your LOVE, dayz are "Saddy, Moanday,Tearsday, Wasteday, Thirstday, Frightday, Shatterday".
  70. Words however special... could never even start, to tell you all the love I have for you within my heart.
  71. I feel something in my heart, it's like a little flame, every time I see you, this flame lights up, this flame is special for you, because I LOVE YOU!....
  72. It must have been a rainy day when you were born, but it wasn't really rain, the sky was crying because it lost its most beautifull angel...!
  73. Sometimes words are hard to find, to form that perfect line to let you know you're always on my mind!
  74. If i could give u 1 thing in life, i would give u the ability 2 c yourself through my eyes, only then would u realise how special u r 2 me!
  75. Listed below are the things that I dont like about you:1.2.3.4.5.6.7.8.9.10...What can I say? I LOVE everything about U!
  76. A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T V W X Y Z oops! i miss "U"
  77. U have been called b4 cupids court 4 stealin my heart, tresspassin in my dreams and robin me of my senses, uv been sentenced 2 a lifetime with me, how do u plead?
  78. Last night I sent an angel 2 watch over u while u were sleeping but it came back early! So I asked it why? It said that angels don't watch over other angels!
  79. By following my heart I came to you, I only forgot to take something back with me. For my thoughts are still with you.
  80. Roses of red grow in my heart and they will never wither... 'Cause they bloom every time I see your smile, hear your voice or just think of you!
  81. You know what, in the whole world there is no such darling whom I love and I want the whole world to know that I will never forget you!
  82. You are always in my heart, here and everywhere, There is no one in the whole world that makes me feel this way.
  83. They learned me that one hours equals 60 minutes and that one minute equals 60 seconds, but they never told me that one second without you can last for ever!
  84. I do not think much, i do not think often, but when I think, I think of you!
  85. Tears in my eyes ......... Tears for you ...... Tears that realise how much I love you.
  86. If a raindrop would mean ... I love you and you would ask me how much I love you, i bet you that it would …. rain all day !
  87. I love you even more than when I started this sentence.
  88. I'll love you till the end! And then some more.
  89. A day without your love is a day without life.
  90. U may be out of my sight, but not out of my heart. U may be out of my reach, but not out of my mind. I may mean
  91. nothing to u, but u'll always be special to me.
  92. Someday you'll 4get abt me, ...my name, ...my voice, who I am & who I am 2 you... But even if you 4get abt me, I just wan u to know... I'll never 4get you...
  93. So many questions, but the answers are so few, all i really know, is, I MISS YOU !
  94. I may seldom tell u how special u are, i may not be able to reach u coz we're both busy, but inspite of all, u know u are someone i really miss and care about.
  95. I dont have the measels, i am not confined to bed, asperin wont help coz it aint my head, i dont have back ache or the flu, its more serious...i am missin u!
  96. Ull always be mine 4 now & 4ever.Ull always be mine 4 u r my treasure.Ull always be mine please tell me its true.Please be mine 4ever ill always luv u.
  97. Sweet as a rose bud bright as a star cute as a kitten thats what u are.bundles of joy sunshine and fun you are everything i luv all rolled into 1.
  98. I have liked many but loved very few. yet no-one has been as sweet as u. I'd stand and wait in the worlds longest queue. just for the pleasure of a moment with u.
  99. A special smile a special face.a special someone i cant replace.i luv u i always will.uve filled a space no one can fill!
  100. I luv ur eyes i luv ur smile.i cherish ur ways i adore ur style. Wot can i say?ur 1of a kind & 24/7 ur on my mind!
  101. As I lie awake in my bed. All sorts of thought run through my head, Like why do I love you as much as I do. Then I realise its because you are you!
  102. I love so much my heart is sure. As time goes on I love you more. Your happy smile, Your loving face, No one will ever take your place.
  103. I hide my tears when I say your name, but the pain in my heart is stil the same.Though I smile and seem carefree,there's no one who misses you more than me!!
  104. Is that love i see in your eyes, or merely a reflection of mine?
  105. Curved high on a mountain covered in dew... I saw these 3 words... I LOVE YOU!
  106. Fate has brought us together, to meet, to know and to part is the saddest thing in life... I £ove You...
  107. A sMiLe tO pUt You On HiGh... A KisS To Set YoUr SouL ALriGhT... WouLd iT bE aLriGhT iF I spEnT ToNiTe BeiNg LovED bY YoU???
  108. It is not being in love that makes me happy... but is being in love with YOU that makes me happy.
  109. Being near is not the meaning of being dear, I may be far from u but msgs are bridges 2 make u feel that I always REMEMBER YOU!
  110. When all seems lost and lonely for you, And you dont really know what to do, Look inside your heart and see There in a special place, I will be.

Saturday, December 15, 2012

Love V/S Like




Difference between SomeOne u Love & SomeOne u Like
             
  •  In front of the person u love, your heart beats faster.
    • But in front of the person u like, u get happy.
  •  In front of a person u love, winter seems like a spring.
    • But in front of a person u like, winter is just a beautiful winter.
  •  If u look into the eyes of the one u love, u blush.
    • But if u look into the eyes of the one u like, u smile.
  • In front of a person u love, u can't say anything on your mind.
    • But in front of a person u like, u can.
  • In front of the one u love, u tend to get shy.
    • But in front of the one u like, u can show your own self.
  • You can't look straight into the eyes of the one u love.
    • But u can always smile into the eyes of the one u like.
  •  When the one u love is crying, u cry with him.
    • But when the one u like is crying, u end up comforting him.
  •  The feeling of love starts from the eye.
    • But the feeling of liking starts from the ear.
  • So if u stop liking a person u used to like, all u need to do is close your ears.
    • But if u try to close your eyes, love turns into a drop of tear & remains in your heart forever.

Sunday, December 9, 2012

Romantic Tips

Love and romance is a flower that brings happiness and fragrance to everyone who touches it. It gives us a reason to smile when the world seems upside down. It fills the empty places in our heart, giving us hope for a future. It brings shine in the eyes making us the most beautiful person on the earth. Love is happiness, love is joy, and love is the happiness in everyone’s life.

Let this love envelop you in its romantic cuddle this Valentine. Let Valentine not be the occasion but love the occasion to Valentine. Here are some romantic tips to bring back that magic spark into your lives. Never underestimate the power of love. Even these small gestures, will fill your love life with romance and happiness.

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"The art of love... is largely the art of persistence" Dr Albert Ellis
  • Send a dozen roses: 11 red roses and 1 white one. The note: "In every bunch there's one who stands out - and you are that one."
  • Write him/her a check for one million kisses.
  • Something for the Honeymoon or anniversary.... a l0ttery ticket and a note: "I hit the jackp0t when I married you."
  • Book A Massage to give your partner a professional massage.
  • Kiss every square inch of her body S-L-O-W-L-Y
  • Hide a love note in a bottle of vitamins. The note will say: "Try some vitamin L."
  • Scatter rose petals all over the bed.
  • Buy the music Romantic CD "Let's talk about love" by Celine Dion.
  • Three simple sex rules:
    •  gals are slow, guys are fast
    •  guys are visual: Show him...
    •  gals are auditory: Tell her...
  • Write notes on Post-it notes and stick them around.
  • Don't buy cheap lingerie unless you plan to rip it off her in passionate lovemaking.
  • Hide a love note in his pants pocket.
  • Other places to hide a small note:
    •  under the pillow
    •  in his shaving kit
    •  between the pages he/she is reading
  • Guys: know her dress size, shoe and stocking size, blouse and nightgown size, bra and panty size, pants and coat size, and of course her finger size (for rings that fit).
  • Gals: know his coat size, shoe and hat size, shirt and pants size, finger size (for bowling balls that fit).
  • Give the gift of time (wristwatch) with this inscription: "I'll always have time for you."
  • NEVER, never, never say "I told you so".
  • Mail a lock of your hair to your lover.
  • Ask him to pick a number between 1 and 50, then reward him with that number of kisses.
  • Make a habit of taking a stroll after dinner every evening.

"Women fall in love through their ears, men fall in love through their eyes.". Woodrow Wyatt.

  • When dining, share everything: your meals and desserts.
  • Make love on top of the washer/dryer (while it's running).
  • Attach a note on the TV remote: "Turn me on instead!"
  • Before getting out of bed, face your partner, give him/her a kiss and say: "I'm so thankful I have you in my life."
  • Sign your letters: "Forever and a day"
  • Place a heart-shaped sticker on your wristwatch to remind you to call.
  • On your lover's birthday send his/her mother a "Thank you" card.
  • Hide a pair of earrings in a box of chocolates.
  • Celebrate the anniversary of when you first met.
  • Shower together by candlelight.
  • Use the little strips of paper from Hershey's kisses as coupons redeemable for one kiss each.
  • Tell your mate that you - love, adore, admire, cherish, desire, want, need, prize, esteem, idolize, revere, treasure him/her.
  • Hide a little gift for her so she'll find it during a walk together.
  • Leave a note: "I know we are soulmates because....."

"Imagination is more important than knowledge" - Albert Einstein

  • Give her your jacket when she is chilly.
  • Nothing is impossible to a willing heart, so let your imagination go wild.
  • Guys: Hold her dinner chair.

"One does not fall 'in' or 'out' of love. One grows in love" - Leo Buscaglia

  • Buy her an outfit while she's trying it on; let her wear it out of the store.
  • Slip a little love note into his wallet, in between the dollar bills.
  • Drip chocolate syrup on selected body parts before lovemaking.

Inspiration for long time lovers: "The older the violin, the sweeter the music"

  • Gently brush her cheeks with your lips.
  • Give him a lottery ticket. Attach a note: "You are one in a million"
  • While slow dancing, whisper something sweet to her.
  • Get the song "I Will Always Love You" by Whitney Houston.
  • When attending a wedding, whisper: "If I had to do it over, I'd marry you again."
  • Hide a teeny, tiny gift somewhere on your body and make him find it.
  • Fill his toolbox with lingerie. Make him "work" to get his tools back.
  • Fold a love note in a fluffy bath towel.
  • Run your hands under warm water before going to bed.
  • Let a Shakespearean quote speak for you.
  • Gals: Never, never, never talk about your past boyfriends in front of him.
  • Sprinkle perfume on to light bulb. When light is turned on the scent of the perfume will fill the room.
  • Listen to a romantic audio tape, fix a cup of hot flavored tea, and light two candles.
  • Keep a journal of your romantic fantasies. Share it with your soul mate.
  • Take a picture of yourself in the most sexy outfit possible. Hide in a secret spot in your house and leave him or her clues on how to get there. Watch the sparks fly!
  • Play "hide-and-seek" in the rain. It's fun and VERY sensual!
  • Fill bathtub with warm water sprinkled with rose petals.
  • Invite your sweetie to an intimate dinner at your place. Make a pizza and with the pepperoni you can write something sweet, like "you are the one for me".
  • Surprise your lover with a kiss before they can finish a sentence.
  • Write your own love poems then record them on a tape and give them to your sweetheart.
  • Give your love an antique compass and say "You will never lose me". Your love will swear the needle always points to their heart!
  • While your love takes a shower, write the words "I love you" in the condensation of the bathroom mirror.
  • Leave a trail of "Hershey's chocolate kisses" from the front door to the bedroom, right up to the bed. On the bed leave a note that reads 'I kiss the ground you walk on.' Make sure you're not home when s/he gets in!
  • Play the game of monopoly with a few new rules. Change boardwalk into backrub, and Tennessee into take your shirt off. Every time you pass go, you get a kiss. etc.
  • Look straight into the eyes of your love and PAY ATTENTION to what they tell you! Tell your mate something about you that no one else knows.
  • Look into the eyes of your special someone often. "The eyes are the window to the soul". Weave love, sex, intimacy, passion and romance into the fabric of your daily lives.
  • Buy a set of matching silk pajamas, and take turns modeling them for each other.
  • Men: Talk more. Women: Touch more.

Friday, December 7, 2012

Love is not Possessive



  • A truly creative person is one who breathes love every moment of his life.
  • By love I mean a sensitive heart and not a sentimental heart.
  • A sensitive heart experiences 'what is' with awe; a sentimental person reacts to 'what is'

Love is the only savior in this world. Love unites and hate divides.
Society has witnessed life based on likes and dislikes, on greed and hate and hence loveless lives. From the foundation of love, your likes and dislikes will become preferences, your greed will transform into a commitment to excel, and your hate will be transformed into concerns. People have preached about love but the undercurrent has been hate. A wise man has to be created with a new heart. A heart without love is on the path of destruction.

  • If your state of being is love then your struggles will also be sacred, or there will be no struggles at all.
  • If you are a lover of dogs then the tricks of the dogs become an act of joy.
  • We talk of love but we are not in a state of love.
  • We only pretend to be in love. Our pretensions become better and manipulative.
  • A deceptive front starts to build in us.
  • A deceptive and pretentious self is noisy and restless. You try to eliminate this restlessness by wrong means and then you throw the garbage of this restlessness on the other. This process makes relationships very messy.

When your state of being is love, then there is no manipulative game. You are silent and restful. This silence you shower on the partner and therefore, more than the intimacy, there is an exchange of silence. This quality of relationship is fulfilling.

  • Our love life is not love but desires masquerading as love.
  • Love makes no conditions.
  • Love never demands,
  • "Fulfill my expectations then I will love you." But most of our love life is like that.

Because of the demand, our relationships are like beggars begging from the other. If two beggars meet beggary is going to increase. In a state of love you will not be a beggar but a giver. Giving comes from love that has no conditions. The joy of giving is bigger than the petty logic of 'if' and 'but'.

When one is silent in the deepest core of one's being, love arises like a fragrance. Such love is unconditional; like the fragrance of the flower it does not create conditions regarding whom to give fragrance to and whom not to give. In this space you give love – and the person concerned is not obliged. You will feel grateful that there is someone who is receiving your love.

Conditional love sends out messages like this: “I have done so much for you, so now you should do this for me.” Or “I need your attention, your sympathy, your consent, your time, your presence, your love.” Or “I want you to live your life according to my beliefs and ideas.” “I need you to need me, and to look after me exactly the way I have in mind.” “And if you don’t do that, I will fall ill or become very unhappy.”

This kind of relationship is psychologically suffocating, and can be even physically suffocating, for the person(s) it concerns. It does not allow personal space to the other one. The path the other one has chosen for his/her life is deliberately surpassed for the sake of someone’s egocentric purposes.

Deep down hidden in the soul of the demanding and possessive person dwells a needy little child, longing for love and appreciation. Under the surface lies deep seated insecurity and fear of loss, especially of relationships. They have difficulty with experiencing self-love and self-acceptance, and the behavior they show is a great example of compensation.

The whole economics of love is that you become richer when you give love.


Thursday, December 6, 2012

Love V/S Infatuation



What, then, is the elusive thing called "Love" that everyone so desperately needs? Sometimes, we sort of like this girl because she is beautiful? Or the girl likes him because he is handsome? But this kind of "Cinderella Syndrome" when the girl is waiting on her Prince Charming, is not real love. It is better known as "Infatuation", and there is a vast difference between it and real love. Enumerated here below are the differences.

Find out if you are really in love and not just infatuated.

Infatuation -

Infatuation is a feeling; real love involves a commitment also. Infatuation is just love of emotion. Real love though, is love of devotion. Only the emotions are affected in infatuation, but in real love both the Emotions and the Will are involved. Next, a person "fall into" infatuation, but "grows into" real love. Gentlemen, have you ever seen a girl who was so beautiful that you thought you'd faint? This is infatuation. It is based totally on physical attraction; Often you don't know much in-depth about the person you so-called love. Thus infatuation is mostly biological.

Also remember, never tell a woman you love her, unless you are willing to marry her. Then, infatuation is basically selfish where real love is basically selfless. Infatuation is more interested in satisfying yourself and your "feelings" than it is in the other person.

Real love is primarily interested in the other person. It seeks to give instead of get. Love unselfishly seeks the highest good for the other person.

Lastly, infatuation is weakened by time and separation where real love is strengthened by time and separation. This does not mean that there will be no pain in separation. On the contrary, there is great pain in separation if you are truly in love.

Love - Now you understand what is infatuation, let us now go on to discuss about Love.

Love is Patient -
The word translated "patient" means to wait patiently for the fulfillment of expectations. When you have difficulty dating this girl and she does not want to come out of her shell, if you truly love her, you will not complain and blame her, you must look at the situation from her point of view – maybe she is having some problems which prevented her from coming out. You must react to it with patience and understanding. Have you ever met someone you liked so much that you wanted to push the relationship and make it progress faster? Sure you have! Love, however, Love is willing to give the relationship time to grow at a natural pace. It does not push but is willing to wait for the relationship to grow at a rate that is satisfactory to both parties.

Love is Kind -
Love seeks to encourage and build up on others. It respects the feelings and emotions of others. It finds its greatest satisfaction in making others happy, i.e. Compliment one another, magnify the other's strength, Listen to one another. Pay close attention to what each of you has to say and make each other feel that what each says is important, etc.

Love is not Jealous -
Jealousy usually indicates an insecure and immature heart. Love wants the best for others, but jealousy is possessive. Jealous is reflected in the childish statement, "If he is going to talk to her, then he can just forget about me!" Often, one person wants to totally possess the other and to restrict her relationships with others.

Love is not to Brag -
Love is not a windbag and is not anxious to impress. Often, a guy will brag to a girl, trying to impress her so that she will like him. A truly great person, however, does not need to exalt himself. Others will exalt him.

Love is not Arrogant -
Love is not conceited, boastful, cocky or stuck up. Love, instead, is humble and has a servant attitude . Sometimes, a guy may come across to a girl with an "I can take you or leave you" attitude. His demeanor implies, "You ought to be thankful that somebody as neat as me is dating you". Of course this is not love.

Love always Covers -
This word cover means to pass over in silence, to keep confidential. Love is patient with faults of others. It doesn't criticize or broadcast to the world the faults of others. Love is present even when it knows the other is not perfect.

Love always Perseveres -
Love always stands its ground and holds out . It will outlast anything. It will even love on the face of unreturned love. Real love will last through all sorts of trials, tribulations and stresses.

Love is not Provoked -
This means that love has a long fuse. It does not become irritated and angry. It is not easily offended. Love does not seek its own. This is the heart of love. Love is other-centered not self-centered. Love says, "I love you, I want to give you." Selfishness says, "I love you, I want you!"

Love does not act Unbecomingly -
This means that love does not behave disgracefully, dishonorably, or indecently. It does not embarrass others by its actions. It is characterized by tact and sensitivity. This also means that love should have good manners. Be sure to do little things like opening doors for your girl or offering her your arm when you walk together.

Love is Forgiving -
Lastly, this is a MUST for a successful love story. If a guy is not willing to forgive and forget when his girlfriend is only an hour late, he is not exhibiting love. Love doesn't hold grudges when it has been wronged. It doesn't remain resentful.

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Little Love Story (Heart Touching Story)



'How long will you be poring over that newspaper? Will you come here right away and make your darling daughter eat her food?'

I tossed the paper away and rushed to the scene. My only daughter Sindu looked frightened. Tears were welling up in her eyes. In front of her was a bowl filled to its brim with Curd Rice.

Sindu is a nice child, quite intelligent for her age. She has just turned eight. She particularly detested Curd Rice. My mother and my wife are orthodox, and believe firmly in the 'cooling effects' of Curd Rice!

I cleared my throat, and picked up the bowl. "Sindu, darling, why don't you take a few mouthful of this Curd Rice? Just for Dad's sake, dear. And, if you don't, your Mom will shout at me.'

I could sense my wife's scowl behind my back. Sindu softened a bit, and wiped her tears with the back of her hands. 'OK, Dad. I will eat - not just a few mouthfuls, but the whole lot of this. But, you should...' Sindu hesitated. 'Dad, if I eat this entire Curd Rice, will you give me whatever I ask for?'

'Oh sure, darling'.

'Promise?'

'Promise'. I covered the pink soft hand extended by my daughter with mine, and clinched the deal.

'Ask Mom also to give a similar promise', my daughter insisted. My wife slapped her hand on sindu's, muttering 'Promise', without any emotion.

Now I became a bit anxious. 'Sindumma, you shouldn't insist on getting a computer or any such expensive items. Dad does not have that kind of money right now. OK?'

'No, Dad. I do not want anything expensive'. Slowly and painfully, she finished eating the whole quantity. I was silently angry with my wife and my mother for forcing my child eat something that she detested.

After the ordeal was through, Sindu came to me with her eyes wide with expectation. All our attention was on her. 'Dad, I want to have my head shaved off, this Sunday!' was her demand!

'Atrocious!' shouted my wife, 'a girl child having her head shaved off? Impossible!'.

'Never in our family!' my mother rasped. 'She has been watching too much of television. Our culture is getting totally spoiled with these TV programs!'

'Sindumma, why don't you ask for something else? We will be sad seeing you with a clean-shaven head.'

'No, Dad. I do not want anything else', Sindu said with finality.

'Please, Sindu, why don't you try to understand our feelings?' I tried to plead with her.

'Dad, you saw how difficult it was for me to eat that Curd Rice'. Sindu was in tears. 'And you promised to grant me whatever I ask for. Now, you are going back on your words. Was it not you who told me the story of King Harishchandra, and its moral that we should honour our promises no matter what?'

It was time for me to call the shots. 'Our promise must be kept.'

'Are you out your mind?' chorused my mother and wife.

'No. If we go back on our promises, she will never learn to honour her own. Sindu, your wish will be fulfilled.'

With her head clean-shaven, Sindu had a round-face, and her eyes looked big & beautiful.

On Monday morning, I dropped her at her school. It was a sight to watch my hairless Sindu walking towards her classroom. She turned around and waved. I waved back with a smile. Just then, a boy alighted from a car, and shouted, 'Sinduja, please wait for me!'

What struck me was the hairless head of that boy. 'May be, that is the in-stuff', I thought.

'Sir, your daughter Sinduja is great indeed!' Without introducing herself, a lady got out of the car, and continued, 'That boy who is walking along with your daughter is my son Harish. He is suffering from ... leukaemia.'

She paused to muffle her sobs. 'Harish could not attend the school for the whole of the last month. He lost all his hair due to the side effects of the chemotherapy. He refused to come back to school fearing the unintentional but cruel teasing of the schoolmates. Sinduja visited him last week, and promised him that she will take care of the teasing issue. But, I never imagined she would sacrifice her lovely hair for the sake of my son! Sir, you and your wife are blessed to have such a noble soul as your daughter.'

I stood transfixed. And then, I wept. 'My little Angel, will you grant me a boon? Should there be another birth for me, will you be my mother, and teach me What Love is?

Monday, December 3, 2012

10 Secrets of Love




The Power Of Thought -

Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think about. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about others and ourselves. If we want to love someone, we need to consider their needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner will help you recognize her when you meet her.

The Power Of Respect -

You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect asks yourself, "What do I respect about myself?" To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself "What do I respect about them?"

The Power Of Giving -

If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! The more love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness. Before committing to a relationship ask not what the other person will be able to give to you, but rather what will you be able to give them. The secret formula of a happy, lifelong, loving relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of what you can take.

The Power Of Friendship -

To find a true love, you must first find a true friend. Love does not consist of gazing into each other's eyes, but rather looking outward together in the same direction. To love someone completely you must love them for who they are, not what they look like. Friendship is the soil through which love's seeds grow. If you want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship.

The Power Of Touch -

Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.

The Power Of Letting Go -

If you love something, let it free. If it comes back to you it's yours, if it doesn't, it never was. Even in a loving relationship, people need their own space. If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts and grievances. Love means letting go of our fears, prejudices, egos and conditions. "Today I let go of all my fears, the past has no power over me - today is the beginning of a new life."

The Power Of Communication -

When we learn to communicate openly and honestly, life changes. To love someone is to communicate with them. Let the people you love know that you love them and appreciate them. Never be afraid to say those three magic words: "I Love you." Never let an opportunity pass to praise someone. Always leave someone you love with a loving word - it could be the last time you see them. If you were about to die but could make telephone calls to the people you loved, who would you call, what would you say and.. Why are you waiting?

The Power Of Commitment -

If you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it, and that commitment will be reflected in your thoughts and actions. Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving relationships, you must be committed to loving relationships. When you are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a strong one.

The Power Of Passion -

Passion ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not come through physical attraction alone; it comes from deep commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement. Passion can be recreated by recreating past experiences when you felt passionate. Spontaneity and surprises produce passion. The essence of love and happiness are the same; all we need to do is to live each day with passion.

The Power Of Trust -

Trust is essential in all loving relationships. Without it one person becomes suspicious, anxious and fearful and the other person feels wrapped and emotionally suffocated. You cannot love someone completely unless you trust them completely. Act as if your relationship with the person you love will never end. One of the ways you can tell whether a person is right for you is to ask yourself, "Do I trust them completely and unreservedly? " If the answer is "no", think carefully before making a commitment.